Thirty-five years ago today, Malou and I stood before God, family, and friends to say our “yes.” It was a sacred promise that has carried us through life’s seasons of joy and struggle, laughter and tears.
To fall in love with God is the greatest of romances, to seek Him the greatest adventure, to find Him the greatest human achievement. (St. Augustine). This is my story of falling in love with God and my journey to find Him.
Saturday, October 18, 2025
Chapter 35
Wednesday, October 1, 2025
You cannot serve God and Mammon
This Sunday, the 25th Sunday in ordinary time, we continue to accompany Jesus in his journey to Jerusalem. Luke’s account of this journey started in chapter 9 and culminates in chapter 19 with the triumphant entry of Jesus in Jerusalem that we all know as the Passion Sunday or Palm Sunday.
We can say this journey is a
geographical journey from Galilee in the north to Jerusalem in the south with
his disciples. It Parallels Moses journey with the people of Israel from Egypt
to the promised land which took them 40 years
An 11-day walk that became 40
years but the prolonged journey serves as an important symbol in the narrative
of the Israelites. It’s not merely a tale of delay but a critical lesson of
faith and trust in God’s divine plan.
My study for Jesus’ journey from
Galilee to Jerusalem did not produce a definite timeline, but by foot the route
can be a 5 to 7 days walk as traditionally done by pilgrim Jews who do this 3
times a year. And Jesus for how long it took him this time took this
opportunity to teach his disciples on the truth about the kingdom of God and
how to truly live a life of discipleship. It is also a journey of the heart,
and we can say it is our journey.
Today, we find ourselves reading chapter 16 and we realize we have passed the midway point of the journey, and the lessons are becoming more intense and deliberate. Jesus in the Gospel today tells us another parable that is unique to Luke’s Gospel. Whereas the parables of the Good Samaritan and the Prodigal Son, also unique to Luke’s Gospel, they are among the most popular. The same cannot be said about today’s parable. Jesus tells his disciples a parable about a rich man and one of his employees or perhaps a slave or servant.
The NRSV version we use, calls
him the dishonest steward or manager. And Jesus’ words at the conclusion of the
Gospel reading is - you cannot serve God and Wealth.
The original Greek word used in
the scripture here is mammonas which is related to similar words in
Hebrew, Aramaic, and Latin, all translating to “money” or “wealth.” In biblical texts, particularly the New
Testament, the word mammon is often associated with the misuse of
wealth and the temptation of materialism. It is used to illustrate
the conflict between serving God and the pursuit of earthly riches. St. Paul affirms
this in 1 Tim. 6:10: “For the love of money is the root of all kinds of
evil.”
The Greek text of the New Testament calls the employee an οἰκονόμος (oikonomos), which means an estate manager. The role of the οἰκονόμος (oikonomos) in a large household was one of great responsibility, but also one of wealth and prestige.
In other words, he wasn’t just a
servant but a trained, trusted and duly empowered agent of his master. It was
not uncommon for the estate manager to enjoy considerable autonomy in
overseeing his master’s affairs, and also to receive a considerable commission
for his efforts.
Scholars disagree about the
meaning of this parable. Some say he did this dishonestly at the expense of his
master. Others say that he was simply giving away his own commission.
And this is the theological
thought I was leaning to favor. That this manager or steward was a shrewd
steward and not a dishonest steward. So the manager here is simply deducting
the amount of his own commission from the amount owing.
This means that the manager is
being opportunistic rather than dishonest. He forgoes his own commission to win
goodwill that will serve him in his coming hour of need. This gives me some
relief because it makes more sense, since rather than rebuking him, his master
praised him for his prudence, otherwise, he would have shown the same attitude
on that master in other parables like the parable of the talents where in the
end, it is always not ending good for the servant.
We can end here brothers and
sisters. All we need to remember is to make good use of the time, talent and
treasure that God has given us and we can continue to slide in safely living
our daily or weekly lives the way we live them now.
But these words – “Dishonest
Steward” hounded me all this time. As I keep of repeating this words and
praying and writing this reflection – it has suddenly dawn on me the Lord is
actually pointing to a different form of dishonesty to me.
Thirty years ago, a Gallup poll
called “Religion in America” demonstrated that 89% of regular churchgoers live
their lives exactly in the same way as non-churchgoers–same rate of marital
infidelity, cheating on income taxes, etc.
Don’t you think it is gross
dishonesty to come here on a Sunday looking holy and nice and then live our
lives void of God the rest of the week. God is only for Sunday, in fact there
are a bigger population of Catholics that live their lives with God for “some”
Sundays, or worst – 2 or 3 Sundays a year.
We are all stewards. We aren’t
entitled to anything, even what we “own” in the eyes of the world. Just think
about this, immediately after crossing the Red Sea, God gave the people of
Israel the Decalogue (the ten words) which we call now the Ten Commandments.
One of the commandment is to
honor the day of rest. The Sabath for
the Jews and now the Lord’s day for Christians. It is a reminder for them, they
are no longer slaves. In Egypt, as slaves, they work 24/7.
This Sunday, we are also reminded
of this beautiful reality. And this parable should give us hope. Even if we are
dishonest, we can do something about that, so it is not a disaster for us in
the end.
In the first reading from Amos,
the Lord swears never to forget the way His hearers have cheated and trampled
the poor. And it is an opportune time for us to consider maybe I need to seek
God’s forgiveness in the sacrament of reconciliation. For who knows, that if I
am only here 3 times a year, when was the last time I was in the confessional.
The second reading from 1 Timothy calls us to pray for others, especially those in authority, so that we can all live lives of peace and devotion. Given the division and violence in our country today and in the world, especially in the wake of tragic assassinations and school shootings, these words take on particular urgency. God wants everyone to be saved, to know His truth, and ultimately be united in His love.
This message from Paul ties in with the Gospel lesson: the way we treat others and use our gifts determines our readiness to one day receive the true wealth and permanent gift of eternal life.
Let us pray for those who hold
positions of leadership, and for those who hate us and disagree with us. I
invite you to recognize everything you have as undeserved gifts, and to use it
all with generosity to form relationships of love—never as instruments of
hatred, violence, or selfishness. With God’s help, we can begin the
transformation of our country, our church, especially our homes which is in
such desperate need of renewal. I pray that someday, we can all enjoy the
eternal dwelling place that God has set out for us.
Saturday, July 26, 2025
On the day I called, O Lord, You answered me
Year C, 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time
July 27, 2025 @ St. Patrick’s
(Sunday 11am, 1pm and 4pm Masses)
First Reading: Genesis 18:20-32
Do not be angry, O
Lord if I speak
Responsorial Psalm: Psalms 138: 1-2a, 2b-3, 6-7ab, 7c-8 (R.3)
On the day I called,
O Lord, you answered me.
Second Reading: Colossians 2:12-14
God made us alive
with him, when he forgave us all our trespasses.
Gospel: Luke 11:1-13
Ask,
and it will be given you.
On this 17th Sunday in ordinary time, the Church is asking us to reflect on this great gift. This gift is PRAYER.
The Lord says in the Gospel:
“ask,
and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will
be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches
finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened.”
This is not a “make-good or
feel-good” statement that politicians or any public figure do to get attention.
This comes from the Lord……. Jesus himself spoke these words. And for those who
believe, these words come with a promise – God sees, hears, and feels you and
he will act accordingly.
In the first reading, we see
Abraham interceding for Sodom and Gomorrah. God’s decision to destroy these 2
cities is a response to an “outcry” (in Hebrew implies oppression and suffering),
in this case, to extreme moral corruption and injustice.
The cities became symbols of
sin and of people who believe they are not doing anything wrong because they
have taken away God in their society and everyone decides which is good or bad.
I wonder if we can say the
same thing with what is happening in our society today.
And here was Abraham,
pleading on behalf of the righteous people of these cities – “suppose
there are fifty righteous within the city; will you then sweep away the
righteous with the wicked?” God has committed to honor Abraham’s prayer
and could have relented and turned his back. But there was none – Abraham’s
final bid – not even 10 righteous in these cities (pause).
And this is the first prayer
lesson for all of us today, my dear brothers and sisters.
(1) God hears and acts on the
prayer of a righteous man:
· Bible scholars observed that in Abraham’s
prayer, he uses one of the languages of God - mercy. It is that prayer: is first
and foremost about asking for mercy.
·
Mercy for our own self but also important,
mercy for other people.
· Abraham was not even there, but from a
distance, he pleaded and interceded for the family of Lot (wife and 2
daughters), and he was hoping there were 6 more righteous people living in
either of the cities.
Don’t we come here with prayer intentions or petitions for someone we know? We are here and offer that prayer and in doing so, we are interceding, pleading with God on their behalf.
And maybe, our city, our country and probably the world have been saved because of the intercession and pleading of righteous people, some of them maybe right here with us. And this is a good reason why it is important why need to go to Church on Sundays.
Because here, we learn the second
prayer lesson. And that is:
(2) We don’t pray alone. Seemingly
as we kneel here today, that the prayer we say is private. Something between me
and God, but it is not. Just think about this:
· Collect
prayer: by being here, the prayer you have said here becomes the prayer of not
only the 650 +/- of who are here but of all the people present on the same
Liturgy being celebrated on this 17th Sunday in ordinary time in
every place and in every time.
· It
is the same Liturgy, and we are all united in prayer wherever this Liturgy is
taking place, regardless it was said 14 hours ahead in the East or 14 hours
later in the West.
· It
is the same Liturgy and God and the heavenly realm are present in this one
Liturgy where in the mystery of God’s love unites all believers.
· We
are talking about millions of Catholic faithful in the same Mass, partaking of
the same bread that has been broken down for us.
· And
even if there are only 1000 righteous Catholics in attendance this weekend over
the millions in attendance, it is still like having a thousand Abraham pleading,
interceding and praying for you and me today. (Pause).
Supposing one night on your drive
home, you see a car wreck on the road. Paramedics, police, ambulance, fire
truck are all there to attend to the crash victim, what do you do?
If you are a good Catholic,
you make the sign of the Cross and say a prayer for the victims of this crash
and you go along.
But in case, you recognize
that the car is your son’s or daughter’s or husband’s or wife’s….. that is
another story. You will stop and run to the crash scene, not because you can do
better than the first responders, but because he or she or they are not just random
persons.
And this is the third and
final lesson about prayer for us today……
(3) That God is not a random
person and you are not a random person to God.
In the Gospel, Jesus reveals
to us that God is first our Father (Greek: Abba)
·
Abba is a word of endearment for a father.
Jesus taught us to call God – Abba
·
He is not teaching us some grammar or some
historical or geographical lessons on relationships. He is trying to teach us who
we really are.
·
If God is our Father, what are we? – we are
brothers and sisters!
Two weeks ago, we
encountered in the Gospel the man left dying after being robbed. The priest and
the Levite regard him as a random person.
·
The priest serves in the temple only 1x a
year and if he touches a random bloody person, he becomes ritually unclean and
will have to be isolated and do the religious ritual process of cleansing. It
was inconvenient and so the same for the Levite.
·
The easier option is to avoid the encounter
and continue to make way and just do what they do best.
I believe that is the same
reason why last week, Jesus commended Mary and telling Martha that Mary chose
the better part.
·
We have forgotten who we are and when we look
around, the person sitting besides us, in front of us or behind us are not
random persons – they are our brothers and sisters.
·
If blood siblings are connected via the same
umbilical cord coming from the same mother, we are all connected because we all
have been baptized by the same Holy Spirit.
· And this relationship does not end when one
dies. For we die yet we live in Christ. This is what we mean in the article of
our faith that we profess every week and we will profess in a short minute, we
say: “we believe in the communion of saints.”
· This is, if we can pray for one another here
and now, our brothers and sisters in heaven who are more alive than us can do
the same.
· And in this Liturgy, imagine how many saints
are here right now in heaven praying for you and me.
When we understand what
actually happens when we are at Mass, nothing should bother us. The stock
market can drop a thousand points in a day, flight maybe delayed or cancelled,
favorite team can lose, plans can fall apart, lose a job, diagnosed with a big
C...etc... but our joyful outlook and deep inner peace will remain in our
hearts.
I believe God created us
with some kind of a homing device right there in our hearts. This maybe what
St. Augustine was thinking when he said that 'our hearts are restless until if
finds rest in God.'
God as our Father longs for
our voice and affection. He knows our pain and we can't hide it from Him. He is
waiting for us to come and meet Him. He awaits us in the Eucharist not just as
a random person. But as a Father to a son…as a Father to a daughter. I pray we
approach him with the same disposition in our hearts. Amen.
May God bless us all…...
Sunday, May 25, 2025
Peace and Presence: God Dwells With Those Who Love Him
St. Patrick’s Catholic Church, 1pm and 4pm Masses
THEME: “Peace and Presence: God Dwells With Those Who Love Him”
This Sunday focuses on the promise of Jesus’ continued presence through the Holy Spirit, the gift of divine peace, and the Church’s call to remain united and faithful in love and obedience.
1st Reading: Acts 15: 1-2, 22-29
essential
Res. Psalm: Ps. 67: 1-2, 4-5, 6-7 (R. 4)
2nd Reading: Rev. 21: 10-14, 22-2
I saw no temple in the city, for its temple is the Lord God Almighty and the Lamb.
Gospel: Jn: 14: 23-29
Introduction – The Promise of Divine Presence
A blessed afternoon/evening to all of you my dear brothers and sisters in Christ.
This Sunday’s Gospel passage comes from the Farewell Discourse of Jesus at the Last Supper, a continuation from last Sunday. Liturgically, we are still in the joyful season of Easter and the Church continues to draw our hearts closer to the Risen Lord, who has conquered death and now offers us new life.
Today, on this 6th Sunday of Easter, we are invited to reflect on a powerful promise: God is not distant. He dwells among us. He makes His home in the hearts of those who love Him.
And the readings today resonate with a beautiful harmony. They speak of peace, guidance, and presence—three gifts that are inseparable when you have a relationship with God.
In the Gospel, Jesus prepares His disciples for His departure and since we will be celebrating His ascension next week, Jesus’ final departure from the earth, He also assures us - that though He is going to the Father, He is not leaving us orphaned.
He promises to send the Holy Spirit, the Advocate, who will remind us of everything He has taught. This is not just a theological truth—it is a personal, living reality.
This beautiful reality that God
is with us. And not just with us, but within us, if we open our hearts in love
and obedience.
The Gospel – Love, Obedience, and Peace
From the time of Moses to early Christianity, people believe that God’s presence is only found in the temple. But in the Gospel today, Jesus revealed a profound mystery - that the presence of God is not limited to temples or rituals, but that He dwells in the heart of every believer who lives in love and obedience.
I
was kind of hoping that our angelic choir will remain true to the Liturgy and
give us the right Gospel Acclamation and they did not disappoint.
In the Gospel acclamation that
came from the Gospel reading itself, we have just heard Jesus says:
“Whoever loves me will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our dwelling with him."
We become his temple. For those who love and obey - their bodies become the temples of the Holy Spirit. And Jesus adds a crucial element: peace.
“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives.”
"Annuntio vobis gaudium magnum: Habemus Papam!" (I announce to you a great joy: We have a Pope!)
Three weeks or so ago, we have been given a new Pope – Leo XIV. He was elected on the 5th balloting, the 2nd day of Conclave. And I can imagine as his name is called – “Cardinal Prevost” over and over again as the votes are tallied, from the 1st balloting to the last, that he would have felt some kind of fear and the overwhelming feeling of unworthiness.
This maybe a big moment in Cardinal Prevost, but his life has been marked by many occasions of saying yes to God. He has lots of experience facing God with love in his hear and saying yes.
You see brother and sisters - Love and obedience—these are not meant to be burdens. They are the fruit of a relationship with Christ. When we love someone, we naturally desire to please them, to honor their words, to live in harmony with their will.
This I think is the reason why Pope Leo’s first word as he steps onto the balcony and gives his first blessing, Urbi et Orbi ("To the City and the World"), to the faithful gathered in St. Peter's Square and watching around the world.
"Peace be with you all"
This is not the fragile peace of politics or the temporary calm of a stormy day. This is Christ’s own peace, rooted in trust, in presence, in the unshakable reality that God is with us.
This
peace is not the absence of trouble but the presence of God amid trouble.
How many of us today long
for this peace? In our families, in our hearts, in our world? Christ offers it
freely, but it begins with a heart open to His presence.
The Early Church – Unity Through the Spirit
The First Reading from the Acts of the Apostles shows us a practical example of the Holy Spirit guiding the Church. The early Christians faced serious conflict—what was required of the Gentile converts? Must they follow the Mosaic Law?
Instead of division, the apostles, with prayer and discernment, listened to the guidance of the Holy Spirit. They send Barsabbas and Silas with Paul and Barnabbas to Antioch with this beautiful message:
"It has seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us to impose on you no further burden than what is essential"
This phrase teaches us a deep truth: the Holy Spirit is not just a divine inspiration floating above us. He is active in the life of the Church, especially in moments of discernment, unity, and leadership.
When we allow the Holy Spirit to guide ourselves, our families, our parishes, or our personal decisions—we participate in this same divine wisdom. And it brings peace. It brings clarity. It brings communion.
This
is the same Spirit Jesus promised in the Gospel, and He continues to speak in
the Church today.
The Heavenly Jerusalem – A Vision of Fulfilled Presence
Finally, in the Book of Revelation, we are given a vision of the New Jerusalem. It is a radiant city, but what makes it truly glorious is not its walls or jewels, but the fact that God dwells in it.
“I saw no temple in the city, for its temple is the Lord God Almighty and the Lamb.”
This vision is not just about heaven; it points to what we are already called to become: a people in whom God dwells. Every Mass, every act of love, every time we obey Christ’s word, we allow that heavenly Jerusalem to take shape in us.
The
Church, even in her imperfections, is meant to be a sign of that future city, a
foretaste of heaven, where peace reigns and God is fully present.
Conclusion – Living as Dwellings of God
So today, dear friends, let us open our hearts anew to the promise of Christ:
- Let us love Him by keeping His word.
- Let us welcome His peace, not as the world gives, but as a gift of the Spirit.
- Let us live as the early Church did—guided by the Holy Spirit, building unity and truth.
- And let us become, more and more, a people in whom God dwells.
And may we say with confidence: “Come, Holy Spirit, dwell in us. Make our hearts Your home.”
Amen.
Monday, April 14, 2025
Palm Sunday of the Passion of the Lord
St. Patrick’s Catholic Church, April 13, 2025
The Passion of our Lord Jesus Christ
My
dearest brothers and Sisters, today we are gathered to celebrate the sixth
Sunday of Lent. For us Catholics in the Latin West, this Sunday is both Palm
Sunday and Passion Sunday, the beginning of the Holy Week. This is the time of the
year when we pause ….. the same way we do during the liturgy to observe sacred
silence, pray and thank God for this great gift of salvation he has given us.
There is no time of the year in the
life of the Church that is more important than the Holy Week. If we are to
borrow the Hebraic expression of acknowledging that we are in the holiest of
all weeks – we will say: Holy, Holy, Holy Week.
For the
reason we have hope for heaven is because of what we celebrate this week. And this
week ….. things will become ugly …. awful …. and really bad. As we enter Holy Week,
we want to remember how ugly, awful and bad it got not because we want to feel sad
about Jesus, of how much he suffered for us. But to be reminded that this
happened because somebody loves us so much.
If I am to tear the pages of the
gospel we have just read and give it to people who do not know and have not
heard about Jesus nor have ever read a bible, they may find it difficult to
believe this ever happened. Why would a man endure such things ….. For what
reason???
For us,
as we have grown accustomed with the story of Jesus’ passion and death year
after year, it may be easy to overlook the significance and importance of these
events. Because we know how the story ends, we have the tendency to skip the horrific
details of Jesus’ passion and death and proceed with the glorious ending of his
Resurrection.
However,
for people in Jesus' time, it is not the case. Imagine the Blessed Mary
standing at the foot of the cross, alone (almost) ….. she could have been
beating her chest and uttering the prayers, Oh God, o God why have you allowed these
horrible things to happen to my son ….. your Son?
And maybe our own human experiences
are the same. That there are moments when we feel abandoned, betrayed, left
alone, ignored and our prayers seem to have fallen on deaf ears. Thus, many
don't find the value of pain, suffering, hardship and many more other negative
circumstances that life throws at us.
Our
liturgy today and the rest of the liturgies this holy week leading to the
Sacred Triduum, does not just aim that we commemorate and relive Jesus’ dying
and rising, but our own dying and rising in Jesus, which will result in our
healing, reconciliation, and redemption.
We were not redeemed at a discounted rate;
we were paid in full including the exorbitant interests. On resurrection Sunday
as the cross and the rest of the sacred images are unveiled for us, we will see
once again the image of God’s Justice and Mercy on the cross.
Did I
say Justice? ….. Yes! As St. Paul said in his letter to the Romans in 6:23:
“for the wages of sin is death.” This death, in the biblical language is not
just the separation of our immortal soul from our body, but it is our eternal separation
from God.
This is the same separation we
experience when somebody we do really love, and care is taken away from us ….. and
multiply that by a gazillion times. This is when you wake up the following day
and realize that the one so dear to you was taken away by death and the very
things this person does every day to annoy you are now the things you long to
see and experience. And now you live in this reality that they are not coming
back.
If you
are a parent, this is the same experience of loosing a child or a child being taken away from you in a crowded mall and you
do not know if that child is now in some other part of the world being sold to
slavery and you will never going to see your child anymore.
It is
like being left alone on the scorching heat of a desert by yourself. No
familiar faces, no company to talk to and walk with. You are isolated and
separated from all the people you have ever love and care, you are separated
from God. You will be there by yourself. You don’t know where to go, the desert
does not seem to end ….. for all eternity ….. alone. That is the biblical
meaning of death. Dead to our sin and selfishness.
And as Fr. Jerome said last Friday,
there is no forgiveness of sins if there is no shedding of blood. And by dying
on the cross, Jesus has paid the price so we may live. That this curse of forever
be separated from God and from one another has now been lifted up.
The ransom
and the penalty for this curse is his life and all his blood. That is God’s
justice – his death for our life. It is like walking out of prison for the
crime we have been convicted of and found guilty of. But we don’t walk out
because of a stroke of a presidential pen issuing a presidential pardon, we
walk out because somebody took our place.
Justice demands payment for the crime.
And Jesus’ life and all his blood are the payment. Not our death but his death.
Not us hanging on the cross, not us drained of our blood – but his life and his
blood ….. that my friends ….. brothers and sisters is mercy.
On the Cross, we see
the justice of God and the mercy of God. This is the reason why we don’t eat
meat on Friday and also eat only 1 meal on this day. It is because we remember
what happened on Good Friday. It used to be all 40 days of Lent, but now it is
relegated to only the Fridays of Lent. And yet for many, we go through this
Fridays of lent just like any other Fridays of the year. I hope we remember
that as we only have one Friday left before us, this Friday – the Good Friday.
But Jesus in respect to our free will
can’t force us to walk out of our prison cell. Remember that there are two
thieves who were crucified with our Lord on Good Friday, but only one received
the promise of heaven. Did Jesus not die for all of us?
We will
have to make that choice in the same way the thief on the right did. That is to
accept this love from God and maybe again, we may want to look into going to
confession if we have not done so this Lent.
Sometimes, we also need to remember
that God invites us to make a leap of faith as what St. Paul, at the end of his
life has said: “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have
kept the faith” (2 Timothy 4:7). His faith was trust that life has a goal, and
it is realized in the eternal existence offered by the Creator who made us in
his image.
Today
brothers and sisters, let us start praying to Jesus to get our hearts ready.
Let us ask him to help us not to hesitate to do whatever he wants us to do even
if they are something beyond our human understanding. Even if we are so ashamed
we have not gone to confession for 15 years.
For we now know that it is part of how
God saves us, that is, the surrender of our will just as Jesus surrendered his
will to the Father that costed him his life and all his blood.
The
prison gate is now open and all we must do is walk out. May the experience of
the Holy week renew and restore our faith in God. That all these things are not
empty shows, empty promises, old broken tradition. That we realize our prayers
don’t fall on God’s deaf ears.
May we receive the grace to be a
better child of God. May it strengthen us in moments of difficulties. May we see
beyond our sufferings the victory that lies ahead.
Brothers
and sisters, if this week is very special, then we need to prepare for it. We
need to be ready for it. For the glory of the resurrection does not happen
without Holy Thursday and Good Friday.
This week, we are going to celebrate
the worst and best things that ever happened to us. And let us thank God for
it.
I keep you and your
family always in my prayers. Amen.