We can’t discount the horribleness
of the evil that is happening around us especially when it hits us really close
to home. When you are the one affected or somebody close to you. Especially
when we don’t find any meaning or sense in the pain, loss and/or suffering.
Sometimes, it is easier to accept when tragedy happens to other people especially
the “bad” people and we will just say “karma.”
If we come to think of it, we are
always double standard. We are easy to judge who is “bad” or not and who is
deserving. We probably don’t realize that our self defined standard of morality
is broken because of our own sins. This is the reason why people when confronted
with this reality resist the message. Because of sin, our eyes are calloused
and our hearings are selective. The scriptures speak of this not only once but
on several occasions across many generations - Isaiah 6:10: Jeremiah 5:21: Ezekiel
12:2: Matthew 13:15: Acts 28:27 ... “you have eyes and ears but fail
to see and hear.”
Like Job, the easiest way out to unburden
once self is put the blame on God. If God is good, why does he allow pain and
suffering happen to good people? Why in the sense he seems to not care? As we
see, this issue of pain and suffering has been asked since time immemorial. What
is fascinating is how God answered Job in his questions – Job 38 4-7:
“Where were you when I laid the earth’s
foundation? Tell me, if you understand. Who marked off its
dimensions? Surely you know! Who stretched a measuring line across
it? On what were its footings set, or who laid its cornerstone—while the
morning stars sang together and all the angels shouted for joy?”
If I am to tear the pages of the bible in Luke chapters 22 and
23 and hand it over to somebody who has not read any single paragraph of the
bible lest, not know the Christian God, what would he say? If the highlights of
our lives are just zeroed in on our own misery, pain and suffering, are we not
missing to tell the whole story here? How about the joy you have brought to
your parents when your born, you had your first step? How about the people in
your life which you have shown kindness and are grateful that have met you? Are
those to be taken for granted? Are those joy and beauty experienced by others
and in your own experience of joy and beauty that others brought to your life inferior
and subservient to the pain and suffering you have now? Has the beauty of your
life stopped because of your pain?
We are a generation of confused people. Our biggest problem is
we listen to the lies of the devil and we are easily deceived. There are even some
from among our ranks, promising to ease our pain. This is the reason why we don’t
know the value of sacrifice and sacrificial offering. We have been deceived
that pain is all bad and we forgot that it is a gift from God. This is the reason
why those who have colon cancer, 97% of the time when it is discovered they are
already terminally ill. Why because you don’t feel any pain. If you don’t feel
the pain of appendicitis, you will die too.
Pain is a gift, sometimes it is temporary to wake us up and tell
us there is something wrong. I need to repair my relationship with my spouse,
children, neighbor… and sometimes it is permanent and God given. I don’t have
an explanation how he chooses the bearer and I don’t want to attempt to know. The
only thing I know is that it is meant to bring glory to His name. The only
attitude necessary here then is to thank God for trusting you to give him this
glory.
Our life with its joy and pain are all beautiful. It should
shout joy and glory to God and let us all be thankful. The Israelites didn’t
reach the promised land until they are done wandering in the desert for 40
years (time of completion). We too, when God deemed our life completed here on
earth, we will enter the promised land where sin, death, pain and suffering
have no more sting – eternally!